Sometimes you have to #finish it clean fast - but yeah in #public that might go either way - perhaps speed does work better than a general spectacle tho.
#Bad people (even #friends I know) use the #reliable "#fact" that:
" #good people don't #hit back "
So they #test + make a #mess enjoying that "#protection" people impose on themselves - like a "#guarantee of politeness" (!)
This didn't work with my friends after a few times (which why we are friends as I 'earned' my '#respect').