After dark, San Diego becomes electric. Here are 9 nightlife spots to hit up immediately
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It stopped me mid-scroll. In an Instagram reel, one DJ was mixing an upbeat track in a dark, packed room while another danced on a stage behind her, twerking perfectly on beat. Above them, a message flashed on a massive screen: “Love. Dance. And F— Ice.”
The crowd went wild, matching the energy of the two Los Angeles-based DJs who go by Mango and Ginger. The night looked so electric that I could feel the FOMO traveling through my body.
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When I tapped the location tag, I assumed I was looking at an underground warehouse party in downtown L.A. or a venue in Hollywood. Instead, the party — known as If You See Me You See Me — was happening 120 miles south in San Diego. As a DJ and music lover, I knew I needed to get down there ASAP.
For many Angelenos, San Diego is the place to go for a peaceful weekend getaway — think scenic cliffs, serene beaches, fresh fish tacos and visits to Balboa Park and the San Diego Zoo. But it’s easy to sleep on its vibrant nightlife scene — and I don’t just mean the bars crowding the Gaslamp Quarter. The city is home to some of the most exciting late-night spaces, from hi-fi listening lounges to a cinematic Middle Eastern restaurant that feels straight out of Disneyland.
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“People just aren’t aware,” says San Diego native Mo Perez, who as DJ Dopemo regularly packs out parties at North Park’s Bluefoot Bar and Lounge. “Then they come here and they’re like, ‘Wow, San Diego is really fun.’”
This is part of the reason why Sasha Marie, a longtime DJ and former member of the Soulection music collective, decided to continue hosting her event If You See Me You See Me, in partnership with Future Is Color, in her hometown of San Diego, even amid invitations to bring it to other cities. She invites DJs from around the globe, many of whom wouldn’t typically play in San Diego, to spin at the party.
“I feel like it’s important to show that something can be successful here,” she says.
Consider this your wake-up call to tap into San Diego’s nightlife scene, whether you want to go dancing or vibe to diverse sounds or have a cocktail in a one-of-a-kind atmosphere. These nine great spots are a sampling of how the city comes alive after dark.
Lou Lou's Jungle Room at the Lafayette Hotel
San Diego Live Music Venue
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No San Diego nightlife spot had been recommended to me more than Lou Lou’s Jungle Room. Tucked inside the lavish Lafayette Hotel, it’s a retro supper club and entertainment venue where you can catch live jazz shows and fun DJ sets of various genres spanning Latin jazz, soul, RnB, hip-hop, salsa and ska.
As the name suggests, several animals are embedded into the decor: There’s zebra wallpaper, leopard banquettes and a jaguar statue. However, the true statement piece is the iconic clamshell stage, which was featured inside the hotel’s previous venue known as the Mississippi Room, which opened in 1946. In the Mississippi Room’s heyday, jazz legends such as Miles Davis, Nina Simone and John Coltrane graced that stage, which was expertly restored for Lou Lou’s Jungle Room.
Seating is generally first come, first served, but some events take reservations, including the supper club, which comes with a prix fixe dinner and a show. If you wish to skip the dinner, you can opt for the food-free reservation, but you’ll be sitting in the seating area closest to the bar rather than near the stage in the main area. Still, the sound quality is superb in every corner of the venue.
As the name suggests, several animals are embedded into the decor: There’s zebra wallpaper, leopard banquettes and a jaguar statue. However, the true statement piece is the iconic clamshell stage, which was featured inside the hotel’s previous venue known as the Mississippi Room, which opened in 1946. In the Mississippi Room’s heyday, jazz legends such as Miles Davis, Nina Simone and John Coltrane graced that stage, which was expertly restored for Lou Lou’s Jungle Room.
Seating is generally first come, first served, but some events take reservations, including the supper club, which comes with a prix fixe dinner and a show. If you wish to skip the dinner, you can opt for the food-free reservation, but you’ll be sitting in the seating area closest to the bar rather than near the stage in the main area. Still, the sound quality is superb in every corner of the venue.
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Aero Club Bar
San Diego Bar
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Just minutes away from the San Diego International Airport is a beloved whiskey dive bar that’s been around since 1947. Local female pilot Marianne Profit co-founded the Aero Club Bar because she wanted a hangout spot where she and her fellow aviators could grab a drink after work. Today, the bar houses one of the largest whiskey selections in Southern California and remains a low-key but vibrant bar that locals love.
Aviation-themed memorabilia fills every square inch of the bar. Model airplanes hang from the ceiling along with colorful Christmas lights. Vintage photos of pilots and plane parts are displayed on the walls. Above the bar is a mural of — you guessed it — more planes along with a showstopping rotating wall brimming with 1,200 bottles of whiskey. There’s also a billiards table toward the back of the bar.
Connected to Aero Club Bar is another hot spot known as Dyno Bar, where patrons can play retro pinball and arcade games like basketball, skee-ball and jet-pong (an electronic, liquid-free version of beer pong). People often flow back and forth between the two bars throughout the night.
Another nearby bar that’s worth checking out is Gossip Grill, a high-energy restaurant and nightclub with an outdoor patio that is designed specifically for women and the LGBTQ+ community. Gossip Grill hosts several events throughout the month and offers a happy hour Tuesday through Sunday (yes, even on the weekends) from 2-6 p.m.
Aviation-themed memorabilia fills every square inch of the bar. Model airplanes hang from the ceiling along with colorful Christmas lights. Vintage photos of pilots and plane parts are displayed on the walls. Above the bar is a mural of — you guessed it — more planes along with a showstopping rotating wall brimming with 1,200 bottles of whiskey. There’s also a billiards table toward the back of the bar.
Connected to Aero Club Bar is another hot spot known as Dyno Bar, where patrons can play retro pinball and arcade games like basketball, skee-ball and jet-pong (an electronic, liquid-free version of beer pong). People often flow back and forth between the two bars throughout the night.
Another nearby bar that’s worth checking out is Gossip Grill, a high-energy restaurant and nightclub with an outdoor patio that is designed specifically for women and the LGBTQ+ community. Gossip Grill hosts several events throughout the month and offers a happy hour Tuesday through Sunday (yes, even on the weekends) from 2-6 p.m.
If You See Me You See Me
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There are not many parties I’d drive more than two hours from Los Angeles to attend, but If You See Me You See Me is at the top of the list.
After traveling around the world for years as a DJ and former member of Soulection, DJ Sasha Marie wanted to bring the electric energy and innovative sounds she’d witnessed back home to San Diego.
“I want people to feel like they can experience different artists and genres without having to step out of their own backyard,” she says.
In 2024, she launched IYSMYSM in partnership with San Diego-based lifestyle brand and design studio Future Is Color (which also holds various events in the city.) Sasha Marie’s best friend Enzo Pighini also helps her with the party.
At If You See Me You See Me, you never know what you’re going to get musically, but you can be assured that Sasha Marie has meticulously curated the DJ lineup for the night. She looks for artists who tell stories through their music selections and take attendees on a journey. Past performers have included producer and fellow Soulection member Sango, Netherlands-born DJ and artist Jael, Brazilian DJ duo Mango and Ginger, New York DJ and producer Shekdash, San Diego native Dauché, and model and artist Shaun Ross.
Not only are IYSMYSM partygoers open to various styles of music — including Afrobeats, house, baile funk, RnB, edits and more — but they actually dance under the flashing blue nights, which is a rarity in today’s nightlife climate.
IYSMYSM takes place a few times a year — hence the name — at different venues around San Diego, so it’s best to follow them on social media for updates.
After traveling around the world for years as a DJ and former member of Soulection, DJ Sasha Marie wanted to bring the electric energy and innovative sounds she’d witnessed back home to San Diego.
“I want people to feel like they can experience different artists and genres without having to step out of their own backyard,” she says.
In 2024, she launched IYSMYSM in partnership with San Diego-based lifestyle brand and design studio Future Is Color (which also holds various events in the city.) Sasha Marie’s best friend Enzo Pighini also helps her with the party.
At If You See Me You See Me, you never know what you’re going to get musically, but you can be assured that Sasha Marie has meticulously curated the DJ lineup for the night. She looks for artists who tell stories through their music selections and take attendees on a journey. Past performers have included producer and fellow Soulection member Sango, Netherlands-born DJ and artist Jael, Brazilian DJ duo Mango and Ginger, New York DJ and producer Shekdash, San Diego native Dauché, and model and artist Shaun Ross.
Not only are IYSMYSM partygoers open to various styles of music — including Afrobeats, house, baile funk, RnB, edits and more — but they actually dance under the flashing blue nights, which is a rarity in today’s nightlife climate.
IYSMYSM takes place a few times a year — hence the name — at different venues around San Diego, so it’s best to follow them on social media for updates.
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The Shout! House
San Diego Piano Bar
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The Gaslamp Quarter is one of the trendiest neighborhoods in San Diego, which means you’re bound to run into more tourists than locals. But one spot that’s worth braving the traffic for is the Shout! House, a dueling piano bar that earns the exclamation point in its name.
Often dubbed “the happiest place in San Diego,” the Shout! House is the go-to spot for milestones like birthdays, bachelor bashes and retirement send-offs — though you certainly don’t need a special occasion to visit. Every night except Monday, two talented musicians play two grand pianos on the stage. The entire show is audience-driven. Write a song you’d like to hear on a piece of paper and leave it on the piano, along with a tip. (A staffer told me that people typically tip $5-$10 though some people pay more. When I visited, one woman paid $20 and received a shout-out from the musicians.
On a recent Friday night, I heard “My Girl” by the Temptations, “Rock With You” by Michael Jackson (my request), “Mr. Brightside” by the Killers and “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” by Cyndi Lauper. The bar quickly turns into a vivacious, intergenerational party with people singing, waving their hands in the air, getting out of their seats to dance and sometimes even being invited onto the stage.
The menu includes bar bites such as chicken tenders, carne asada fries, short rib tacos, burgers and Bavarian soft pretzels. You can also purchase music-inspired specialty cocktails with names like Sex on the Piano and Phil “Cucumber Collins,” their signature hurricane in a souvenir glass with glowing ice cubes, along with beer, wine and mocktails.
Though walk-ins are sometimes welcome, it’s best to make a reservation here to ensure you get a seat.
Often dubbed “the happiest place in San Diego,” the Shout! House is the go-to spot for milestones like birthdays, bachelor bashes and retirement send-offs — though you certainly don’t need a special occasion to visit. Every night except Monday, two talented musicians play two grand pianos on the stage. The entire show is audience-driven. Write a song you’d like to hear on a piece of paper and leave it on the piano, along with a tip. (A staffer told me that people typically tip $5-$10 though some people pay more. When I visited, one woman paid $20 and received a shout-out from the musicians.
On a recent Friday night, I heard “My Girl” by the Temptations, “Rock With You” by Michael Jackson (my request), “Mr. Brightside” by the Killers and “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” by Cyndi Lauper. The bar quickly turns into a vivacious, intergenerational party with people singing, waving their hands in the air, getting out of their seats to dance and sometimes even being invited onto the stage.
The menu includes bar bites such as chicken tenders, carne asada fries, short rib tacos, burgers and Bavarian soft pretzels. You can also purchase music-inspired specialty cocktails with names like Sex on the Piano and Phil “Cucumber Collins,” their signature hurricane in a souvenir glass with glowing ice cubes, along with beer, wine and mocktails.
Though walk-ins are sometimes welcome, it’s best to make a reservation here to ensure you get a seat.
Jazz Night and the Listening Room with Future Is Color
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Founded in 2020 by designer Erwin Hines, Future Is Color is a San Diego-based lifestyle brand and design studio that produces clothing, objects and experiences centered on community, connection and collective liberation. Among its most popular gatherings is Jazz Night, a free, twice-a-month affair that features live performances from DJs and artists such as Grammy-nominated poet Aja Monet, Thee Sacred Souls’ lead singer Josh Lane, and British musician and composer Shabaka Hutchings. Although roughly 1,000 people attend each Jazz Night, it still manages to feel intimate. If space allows, the musicians will perform at ground level in the center as the audience gathers around them.
Jazz Night is typically held at the sizable, outdoor space known as Quartyard in downtown San Diego, and once a quarter, it’s hosted at the Museum of Contemporary Art San Diego.
Another Future Is Color favorite is the Listening Room, where patrons are invited to slow down, vibe out and listen to a single album over the span of three hours, then have insightful conversations about what they’re hearing.
“A lot of times we’re not breaking down the music directly, but we’re looking at it through the lens of like ‘What is this artist’s journey?’ ‘How does that journey sort of attach to what you’re experiencing?’” says Hines. At the twice-a-month event, which is curated in partnership with Aladrian Goods, they’ve examined albums like Michael Jackson’s “Off the Wall,” “In Search Of” by N.E.R.D., Solange’s “When I Get Home” and Kendrick Lamar’s “Mr. Morale and the Big Steppers.” The event usually takes place at Future Is Color’s studio in the historic Barrio Logan neighborhood or at MCASD.
Check out Future Is Color’s Instagram page to keep up with all of their events.
Jazz Night is typically held at the sizable, outdoor space known as Quartyard in downtown San Diego, and once a quarter, it’s hosted at the Museum of Contemporary Art San Diego.
Another Future Is Color favorite is the Listening Room, where patrons are invited to slow down, vibe out and listen to a single album over the span of three hours, then have insightful conversations about what they’re hearing.
“A lot of times we’re not breaking down the music directly, but we’re looking at it through the lens of like ‘What is this artist’s journey?’ ‘How does that journey sort of attach to what you’re experiencing?’” says Hines. At the twice-a-month event, which is curated in partnership with Aladrian Goods, they’ve examined albums like Michael Jackson’s “Off the Wall,” “In Search Of” by N.E.R.D., Solange’s “When I Get Home” and Kendrick Lamar’s “Mr. Morale and the Big Steppers.” The event usually takes place at Future Is Color’s studio in the historic Barrio Logan neighborhood or at MCASD.
Check out Future Is Color’s Instagram page to keep up with all of their events.
Part Time Lover
San Diego Bar
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Over the last few years, Japanese-style hi-fi bars have exploded in popularity around the country. One that deserves special attention is Part Time Lover in North Park, which opened in 2022. It’s very comfortable and, if the disc on the turntable lines up with your taste, difficult to leave.
Though Part Time Lover is officially the bar’s name (and a Stevie Wonder song), the local shorthand (and the lettering on the storefront) is PTL. In addition to the bar’s plush and paneled main room and impeccable sound system (which includes a McIntosh tube amp to wow the audiophiles), there’s a vintage record shop in back that’s especially strong in jazz. On the sound system while I was there: an LP from the ’70s Nigerian rock band Ofege.
“It’s not a dive bar and it’s not a club,” record selector Sophia Moreno told me. “It’s something different. To promote curiosity and to promote wonder. It’s really about slowing down.”
The vinyl, for sale from 4 to 10 p.m. nightly, is supplied by Folk Arts Rare Records, a venerated San Diego boho institution whose main location is at 3610 University Ave. PTL offers musical theme nights (“left-field jazz and experimental dance tracks”) and an endlessly varied parade of selectors and DJs that has included the Chulita Vinyl Club and members of the band Thee Sacred Souls. There’s plenty of chatter among customers, but they tend to speak quietly. The music is a far higher priority than in most other bars. Also: “no reservations, no cassettes, no requests.”
Though Part Time Lover is officially the bar’s name (and a Stevie Wonder song), the local shorthand (and the lettering on the storefront) is PTL. In addition to the bar’s plush and paneled main room and impeccable sound system (which includes a McIntosh tube amp to wow the audiophiles), there’s a vintage record shop in back that’s especially strong in jazz. On the sound system while I was there: an LP from the ’70s Nigerian rock band Ofege.
“It’s not a dive bar and it’s not a club,” record selector Sophia Moreno told me. “It’s something different. To promote curiosity and to promote wonder. It’s really about slowing down.”
The vinyl, for sale from 4 to 10 p.m. nightly, is supplied by Folk Arts Rare Records, a venerated San Diego boho institution whose main location is at 3610 University Ave. PTL offers musical theme nights (“left-field jazz and experimental dance tracks”) and an endlessly varied parade of selectors and DJs that has included the Chulita Vinyl Club and members of the band Thee Sacred Souls. There’s plenty of chatter among customers, but they tend to speak quietly. The music is a far higher priority than in most other bars. Also: “no reservations, no cassettes, no requests.”
RnB Nite at Bluefoot Bar and Lounge
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If you love slow jams and songs about love and yearning, make your way to DJ Dopemo’s RnB Nite at the Bluefoot Bar and Lounge in the North Park neighborhood. The San Diego native, who’s been DJing for more than a decade and hosting events for even longer, hosts the party every third Friday, which is free before 10 p.m. and $5 after that.
Expect to hear RnB music from the 1990s, 2000s and contemporary artists along with sprinkles of hip-hop, reggaeton and cumbia. Each month, Dopemo invites local DJs and some from L.A. to join her on the decks. The bar is relatively small and fills up fast, so it’s best to get there early to ensure entry.
On a recent Instagram post about the party, someone commented: “What’s the vibe usually?”
Dopemo’s response? “The vibe is: sing ur heart out.”
Dopemo also hosts another party called Good Fridays where you can hear hip-hop, RnB, reggaeton and more at the same bar every first Friday of the month. (If you’re not able to make it to San Diego anytime soon, you can catch Dopemo spinning regularly in Los Angeles as well.)
Another RnB-centered event that’s worth checking out is Noir Nights, hosted by DJ Markus Rivey, where you can listen to deep cuts and throwback jams as you sip on wine.
Expect to hear RnB music from the 1990s, 2000s and contemporary artists along with sprinkles of hip-hop, reggaeton and cumbia. Each month, Dopemo invites local DJs and some from L.A. to join her on the decks. The bar is relatively small and fills up fast, so it’s best to get there early to ensure entry.
On a recent Instagram post about the party, someone commented: “What’s the vibe usually?”
Dopemo’s response? “The vibe is: sing ur heart out.”
Dopemo also hosts another party called Good Fridays where you can hear hip-hop, RnB, reggaeton and more at the same bar every first Friday of the month. (If you’re not able to make it to San Diego anytime soon, you can catch Dopemo spinning regularly in Los Angeles as well.)
Another RnB-centered event that’s worth checking out is Noir Nights, hosted by DJ Markus Rivey, where you can listen to deep cuts and throwback jams as you sip on wine.
Leila
San Diego Restaurant and lounge
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From the Japanese-style listening bar Part Time Lover to over-the-top maximalist hotels, CH Projects is known for designing beautiful, immersive spaces that challenge traditional hospitality rules. Their Middle Eastern restaurant, Leila, is no exception.
Stepping inside of North Park’s Leila feels like you’re being whisked onto the set of the Disney movie “Aladdin.” The blackened ceiling is full of twinkling lights that make you feel like you are dining under the stars. A wooden bridge leads to the main dining room, adorned with loads of Moroccan-style oil lanterns, trees and a waterfall that creates a relaxing atmosphere. There’s even a serene water fountain in the restroom. The seating nooks feature beautiful fabric drapery that makes you want to get cozy and stay for a while.
Inspired by CH Projects co-founder Arsalun Tafazoli’s own Persian heritage, Leila’s menu is just as impressive as the decor. Among the most popular dishes are the kabobs (beef koobideh, steak, salmon, joojeh chicken and even a grilled vegetable skewer), various breads like naan and pita and hummus. The open kitchen features a fire pit to cook a whole fish and delicious lamb shanks.
An impressive tea service and Turkish coffee are also available, as well as signature cocktails like the Majda (a Moroccan spritz), Joon (Leila’s slightly dirty Persian-style martini) and Foozool (a pineapple rum drink that is like “lassi gone Persian tropics,” the menu says). Be sure to book a reservation before coming here. If you just want to sit at the bar, as many guests do, it’s best to arrive as early as possible.
Stepping inside of North Park’s Leila feels like you’re being whisked onto the set of the Disney movie “Aladdin.” The blackened ceiling is full of twinkling lights that make you feel like you are dining under the stars. A wooden bridge leads to the main dining room, adorned with loads of Moroccan-style oil lanterns, trees and a waterfall that creates a relaxing atmosphere. There’s even a serene water fountain in the restroom. The seating nooks feature beautiful fabric drapery that makes you want to get cozy and stay for a while.
Inspired by CH Projects co-founder Arsalun Tafazoli’s own Persian heritage, Leila’s menu is just as impressive as the decor. Among the most popular dishes are the kabobs (beef koobideh, steak, salmon, joojeh chicken and even a grilled vegetable skewer), various breads like naan and pita and hummus. The open kitchen features a fire pit to cook a whole fish and delicious lamb shanks.
An impressive tea service and Turkish coffee are also available, as well as signature cocktails like the Majda (a Moroccan spritz), Joon (Leila’s slightly dirty Persian-style martini) and Foozool (a pineapple rum drink that is like “lassi gone Persian tropics,” the menu says). Be sure to book a reservation before coming here. If you just want to sit at the bar, as many guests do, it’s best to arrive as early as possible.
Kiku Room
San Diego Bar
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Located on the northern edge of Little Italy near the 5 Freeway is Kiku Room, a sleek Japanese-style listening bar with strong musical roots. It occupies the original home of the Casbah, the iconic music venue where bands like Nirvana and Smashing Pumpkins played intimate sets before reaching superstardom.
Inspired by jazu kissas, the word “Kiku” is a conjugation of the Japanese verb meaning “to listen.” While Part Time Lover has a lavish Art Deco appeal, the style at Kiku Room is more minimalist. Dubbed “your neighborhood music bar,” Kiku Room is intentionally dark and is only lit by a soft neon red light, creating a more sexy and moody vibe. Expect to hear a range of “eclectic music” by DJs spinning both vinyl and digital.
“It is less about the format in which we play the music and more about the effect the music has on its patrons,” the website says.
Stop by the bar to grab one of their playfully named cocktails (Partner in Crime, This’ll Fix Me, etc.) or a shot if you’re feeling frisky (Mexican Candy, Scooby Snack or Michelin Green Tea). Then head to the back lounge behind the DJ booth where you can relax on a cozy sofa and enjoy the music. (I enjoyed the Kiku Colada, which is made with Cachaca, coconut, passionfruit and other ingredients.)
Another Japanese-inspired listening bar that’s worth checking out is Longplay Hi-Fi that serves up vinyl DJ sets, coffee, cocktails and bites. The bar and cafe also hosts events including a refreshing, phone-free gathering called Chronically Offline, a collaboration with a collective called URL to IRL.
Inspired by jazu kissas, the word “Kiku” is a conjugation of the Japanese verb meaning “to listen.” While Part Time Lover has a lavish Art Deco appeal, the style at Kiku Room is more minimalist. Dubbed “your neighborhood music bar,” Kiku Room is intentionally dark and is only lit by a soft neon red light, creating a more sexy and moody vibe. Expect to hear a range of “eclectic music” by DJs spinning both vinyl and digital.
“It is less about the format in which we play the music and more about the effect the music has on its patrons,” the website says.
Stop by the bar to grab one of their playfully named cocktails (Partner in Crime, This’ll Fix Me, etc.) or a shot if you’re feeling frisky (Mexican Candy, Scooby Snack or Michelin Green Tea). Then head to the back lounge behind the DJ booth where you can relax on a cozy sofa and enjoy the music. (I enjoyed the Kiku Colada, which is made with Cachaca, coconut, passionfruit and other ingredients.)
Another Japanese-inspired listening bar that’s worth checking out is Longplay Hi-Fi that serves up vinyl DJ sets, coffee, cocktails and bites. The bar and cafe also hosts events including a refreshing, phone-free gathering called Chronically Offline, a collaboration with a collective called URL to IRL.
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